Take The Journey Home To Your Self

Enough with the self-hate. Find what it means to be comfortable with your self.

What Does Being Home Mean?

We’re all searching to return Home. We want to get back to when we were whole.

Life has broken us down, and returning Home means getting back to a state of acceptance, love, and peace.

How This Program Will Help You Return Home.

You Will Journey With a Guide

The Truth is, you will go on this Journey with or without me. We’re all called to turn inwards and return Home. If you’re reading this, then you’re being called. This is a Journey you can go through alone, or with someone. I’m happy to say that I’ve helped guide dozens of people walk their path back to themselves into happier and more joyful lives.

Creating A Weekly Space of Acceptance

A judgment-free space is sacred, and many of us don’t have one. Being in this space will help you work through past and current situations that are blocking you from returning Home. During our 12 one-hour weekly sessions, you’ll be able to bring up anything that’s going on in your life. We’ll work through it, and on the other side, you’ll find yourself more powerful and ready to engage in life.

A Declaration That You're Ready For Better

One of the biggest steps we can take to changing our lives is actually taking a step. The Journey you are about to partake in will yield an enormous amount of growth, and enlightenment. The more you put into it, the more you’ll get back.

How You’ll Get Home


The first step is to coming Home, is expressing what’s bothering you. The pains and traumas we have, keep us focused on what’s hurting us. By expressing these, we allow ourselves to detach enough from them to observe them.

You will do this by showing up to our sessions, and daily journaling prompts that are provided.


The second step happens when we observe our pain. When we get there, we can take time to reflect on what that pain means to us. Why are we in pain? Did we have a role? What can we do differently? How can we go from a victim to a victor?

This Reflection will end up happening on a constant basis. Everyday will become a meditation on how you can heal and grow.


After the reflection process, there will be times of epiphany and revelation. This is the Discovery phase. This is where you’ll discover your Home. It’s where you’ll get your answers from, your insights from, your acceptance from. 

You will Discover by learning to let go, through an easy writing exercise and all the answers will come to you.


This journey is never-ending. The point of this program is to allow you to start your journey and get the tools necessary to continue it for life. There’s always more to learn about ourselves, there’s always more to accept, there’s always more to love.

Is This Process For You?

Here are some of the questions you can ask yourself to see if Spread Your Light Coaching is for you.

Are you ready to take action to feel better about yourself?
Willingness is the biggest factor in this process. You must be willing to show up every week and face what’s going on in your life.
Are you ready to be able to deal with your depression and anxiety?
Nobody can take your depression and anxiety away. But through this journey you’ll learn how to not only deal with it, but also use it to your advantage by using it as a way to reflect, grow, and engage.
Are you tired of your current life and want a change?
By being consistent in your effort over the 3 months of this program, you will create a new life that you’ll love to live.
Are you ready to stop judging yourself?
By showing up and being vulnerable about what’s bothering you, you will learn to stop judging yourself, and be able to replace that judgment with acceptance.

What Will The Journey Home Do For You?

During this life coaching, you will begin a Journey Home to finally feel comfortable in your life. This process can lead you to taking action on your dreams and passions, enter into healthy relationships, heal past and current wounds, gain new perspectives, approach the world with intention, and most importantly live a life that brings joy to you.

However, This Isn’t About Reaching External Goals

It’s quite the opposite. It’s about reestablishing your focus onto yourself. You may reach the external goals you want to reach due this process, but that won’t be the focal point. The Journey Home is about learning to love yourself. It’s about dealing with your depression, anxiety, judgment, and overall unhappiness that you feel with your current life, and turning that around into something beautiful.

The Results You’ll See Along Your Journey Include:

Understanding the beauty of letting go and surrendering, and learning how it’s the only way we can receive.

Knowing how to meditate and judge yourself less.

Realizing why you should always do what you WANT not what you SHOULD.

How to find balance in all areas of your life.

What to Expect

With Spread Your Light Coaching you will begin your Journey Home.

During this process, I will guide you by providing a space where you can be 100% your True self.  This will help you Express, Reflect, and Discover your self and your Home. In doing so, you’ll be able to bring out the best parts of your Self to completely change your life.

During this Journey, you will be doing the work necessary to create a life you’ll love to live. The weeks and months will be filled with epiphanies and revelations, by listening to your intuition and truly engaging in your True path.

This will all happen by the space created in our coaching sessions, the work you do in between them, and the continued effort after this Journey comes to an end. 

When this Journey ends, another one begins. But because of the effort you’ll put into this program, you will have clarity on what you need to do to continue living and creating a life of joy.

I will help you in this Journey by:


  • Readying myself spiritually before every meeting.
  • Listening intently.
  • Responding intuitively.
  • Enhancing what’s already working for you.
  • Co-creating personalized sessions with you to make sure you’re moving forward in the best way for you.
  • Holding you accountable.
  • Creating action-steps in line with the direction you want to head in life.
  • Constantly updating and creating videos and PDF guides to further help you in your Journey.
  • Providing journaling prompts, a surrendering exercise, and a meditation practice, which will become your new daily routine.
  • Weekly check-ins with yourself that will show you your progress, allow you to let go of what happened in the week prior, and get prepared for the week arriving.
Best life coach of all time! Absolutely game changing as far as his ability to see patterns and heal wounds that I didn’t even know existed. Bobby understands love and the lies we tell ourselves about love on such a meaningful level that he’ll blow your mind in 10 minutes or less. Guarantee you’re life will be changed even if you only speak to him once! 100% support everything he does!

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Having Bobby for a life coach truly did map out my life towards multiple positive directions. I am forever thankful for the experience. He was dependable caring and provided me with amazing insight, planning, advice, perspective and truly helped me learn a lot about myself. Tallie Mervilus

Over time, through our sessions I learned how to believe in myself for the first time. I began to believe in my voice, heck even believe I even have a voice. In that process, I was able to open myself up and find my calling. Since that awakening, my life has changed to a degree I sometimes don’t recognize… for the first time I am okay with the process. I am making choices that reflect my truth and I am taking ownership of my life. I’m not bored anymore and I am excited to see what the future holds.

Kristina Ross

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